
It is difficult to define someone in a word or two, but if pressed, I would have to say that I am a veteran dreamer. When I was young, my mother and my teachers would frequently urge me to focus - a discipline I was woefully lacking. I presume that in today's world I might be diagnosed with ADHD.
My youngest brother, Richard, recently sent me an old letter from my seventh-grade teacher. We have no clue why he had this letter. It was dated November 11, 1960. Our family's relocation from Ohio to New Mexico, prompted Mrs. Macklin's assessment of my academic performance. She wrote that I had been such a fine leader of my class., but that my grades should have been better. She added that my "sin" was one of omission - omitting written assignments, like spelling stories, summaries, and themes.
When I was bored, I often lapsed into a state of lucid dreaming. I yearned to be someone who did daring deeds, accomplished great achievements. When I was young, the fantasies were simple. I might be Tarzan when I wandered in the nearby forest, or perhaps Davy Crocket, floating down Blacklick Creek on a log.
I was no Walter Mitty, but as I grew older, I plunged into many endeavors that frequently amounted to little. I never let those little failures slow me down, though. I chased after many "hair-brained" projects, some more successful than others. As a result, I have enjoyed a full and rewarding life.
My first book, Wolf's Tale, includes many of my crazy endeavors. I originally planned to call that book, Things Worth Doing. It's a concept that I recommend to others. If you don't try new things, take some calculated chances, and follow your dreams, you just might miss out on life-changing experiences.
You've heard people say, "You learn by your mistakes." I've certainly made my share of them, but we can't allow those bumps in the road to dominate our lives. I filled a whole book with my mistakes, but I kept on dreaming.
By the time I was in my mid-forties, I began making better hair-brained decisions. Several of those worked out pretty well. Starting a ranch in California, was about as crazy as you can get. Paula tried to talk some sense into me. She eventually realized, though, that there was a chance we could pull it off. That adventure turned out to be one of the most amazing chapters or our lives.
Day dreaming is a way to imagine what might be. if you want to change your life, or just improve the one you have, follow your dreams. In my opinion, it's never too early or too late in life to consider what might be. As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "It is not the length of life, but the depth."
And here's the thing: you don't have to be the best, a superstar, or a raging success, to be fulfilled. One of the most terrifying things I ever did was to create a start-up high-tech company with three partners. That endeavor did not make me rich, but we pulled it off, and it was successful.
Since moving to Florida, I briefly considered starting a python hunting guide business, but Paula wisely discouraged me. Perhaps I'm a little old for that sort of new adventure.
You may already know that I've ventured off onto a side road in my writing career. I decided to learn the art of playwrighting. I'm partnering with a man who actually knows something about the theater. We're working on an adaptation of my book I Am Everett. I find it challenging, often frustrating, but it feels like the next thing worth doing.
I've traveled all my adult life. I thought that I would spend a lot of time traveling after I retired, but we haven't taken many trips. There are definitely a few places on my bucket list that I plan to make happen. I think my canoeing and hiking days are over. Some aspects of getting older are downright inconvenient. There are river trips and train trips that seem like a reasonable way to go.
My mother used to tell me that we should live each day like it's our last. Life is precious. Life is short.
“Dreams are like stars. You may never touch them, but if you follow them they will lead you to your destiny.”
Liam James